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Word for tonight:

Belive God is raising up some soldiers to tell the truth, to hit pinpoint that never been heard in the Church.

I give my life to God in 2010, but that moment in the church there more preaching about God goodness, love, money & blessing; not saying this bad but it should be a balance to share the Good & Bad..

God is more then just blessing… to many is watering down the word of God, because they afraid they might lose (members or people so you say). People wants real not fake… with that being said if, or will you teach on perversion, child abuse, pornography, lust, hell, spiritual warfare, and so on..

Don’t see people just as a pat on the back. be concern about the soul, don’t see God words just for money.. be real! In the church & out….

Words is very powerful! List up ladies. God made you perfect just the way you are, Encourage Yourself by seeking the word of God.

-Sarah

You can be healing

80% of Sexual Abuse Victims Are Under the Age of 30
Sexual Abuse is any inappropriate and forceful physical, visual or verbal interaction for sexual stimulation or satisfaction. This abuse is intentional, not accidental, and is often committed by someone the victim knows or has regular contact with, such as a family member, friend or teacher.

Every 107 Seconds, Another American Is Sexually Assaulted.

3 keys sexual abuse can do to a person conscious

1. Lose their voice by shutting down and not being open to anyone that’s willing to help them.

2. Make them feel shame and guilty and feeling so independent

3. Losing their true identity purpose… •


Psalm 34:18
Psalm 147:3
Romans 8:39
1 John 4:10
Matthew 11:28-30

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Cut the core

When someone has gone through abuse these will be the biggest keys, that’s will keep you hostage but first let look at the definition.

hostage: a person who is captured by someone who demands that certain things be done before the captured person is freed

You can be held hostage within yourself that’s only if you give it the power to do so…

I can go much deeper!

Few keys that the devil or yourselves will tell you.

1. No place
2. No voice
3. No worth

You can big your biggest enemy. This why its very important to get heal by God so you can live, have viable, and purpose.

– Sarah Coulter

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DO NOT CROSS: “Do I really want to be in a relationship” ?

DO NOT CROSS: “Do I really want to be in a relationship”?

10 Few keys you need to know that will be a red flag when it comes to the opposite gender in the beginning.

1. Now, without a patient.
2. Now, is Lust
3. Trying to find a way to get you to be by yourself
4. Trying to find ways to turn you on
4. Getting upset quickly when things don’t go their way
5. Moving to fast

6. Vision does not match up with his / her
7. says that you are “judging” when you are correcting them with Biblical truth.
8. Hesitate
9. Insecure
10. Talk about the Bible with no action ❤📿🙌

– Sarah Coulter

What is your highlight?

Psalm 91

Verse: 2,3,4,11, and 15 was a highlight for me.

We should be able to say that God is our shelter and protector when it comes to any issues that we come across our lives.

But if we lack trust how can we say that?

Our God is not a God that turns his back on us, our close his eyes when we are in danger.

That first part in verse 3: “surely he shall delivery”

So when anyone cries out for help by being any sin or just need help, he will come through immunity to save us or to de delivered from something.

For example: If a newborn bad cry the mother not going to sit there by doing nothing, just going to get up right away to see what’s wrong with the baby.

With God, there should be any doubt but prayer.

When God has an assignment for us to do, he guides us with the Holy Spirit but in order for God to take charge there much be a daily relationship with the father.

But at the end of the day: with faith in trust in God there’s no action in Him.

“Pick up where you’ve never started”

Matthew 6:16-23
Revelation 2:5
•Doing things differently
•Sin because you’re hurting, hurt because you’re singing.
Jeremiah
What can I do different then last time?
Mattew 13:26-30
Were would you go if you die today?
Your mission is must to big, to try not to sin.
Who are you pasting you

OUR OWN HOPE
• Psalm 71:5
• Luke 18:7
If you don’t give your testimony, you will double
Don’t forget what God is as of you to do
• 2 peter 3:11-14
Dont let the devil take your hope

How far ?

Faith is acting:

Many of time we say we do something on what God already had told you from the beginning, but as a human, we still want to see how things will “if I see it first then I’ll believe it”. God doesn’t work that way!

If I tell you who built this building you will say a man, even though you never saw the men build it you’ll still believe that the man built that building.

Get the point?

Trust in the Lord with all your heart and lean not on your own understanding.

Or walk by faith and not by sight.

See: you do believe but do you really believe?

We all want to blessing but do you really want to see a smile on someone face or help someone that’s on drugs or maybe encourage someone in prison; probably let someone know at a job that’s it’s going to be okay.

How often do you really find yourself not having your head in the clouds, or just thinking I will just attend church and that’s it.

I’m not here to shame anyone but, to tell the truth!

God is looking for a willing heart not to be popular or for money, but to share his words.

See my vision is to help a single mother and young adults, to give them understand on purity not just church people but always outside.

The church is not made to keep God love in the church, it’s to go out them 4 walls to reach broken hearts.

#walkingbyfaith #writethebook

Know your worth

may of time we find ourselves chasing a guy more than God. See: a guy know when a woman is lowering their self-worth, most of the time a woman can’t realize what they are doing let’s they stop; and really by thinking about what’s beneficially or not or just prayer and ask God (is this the guy you want me to be with), but we rather not ask God that question because you may be in the looks or what this guy is giving you that’s only temporary.

Trust in the Lord with all thine heart; and lean not unto thine own understanding. In all thy ways acknowledge him, and he shall direct thy paths. (Proverbs 3:5 6)

KEYS words:

1. Trust
2. Lord
3. Heart
4. Direct

If you are prayer for a husband or wife. God wants you to trust in the Lord, by knowing that his time is perfect. God doesn’t want you to land on your own understanding, by accepting every guy that’s come your way.

acknowledge God: instead of focusing on a guy focus on your desire, your purpose, your gift. God has gifted you to do for others and help others on this earth, grow your relationship with another believer that’s on fire for God, travel, building a relationship with God.

Thank you!

Section 1: Breaking Change in silent abuse

I am listening podcast Section 1: Breaking Change in silent abuse on https://castbox.fm/vb/76891969. Give it a listen.

The podcast is now available for you! Quick note: To have a more understanding of this new section, make sure you go over note lesson that I put together. Last, all lessons through this podcast will be in a book. Some lesson will not be available, lest you order an e-book lesson.

Lesson note: is available! at the bottom, you will see a link. At the end of this first section, I will be taking it down to add more & to make this out of a book.

Thank you!

Sarah Coulter

Relationship Without God: part 2

Short Testimony

Time of my life when I didn’t even have a desire to please God. I was more concern about my needs, filling my heart with pleasure, seek other by what they think of me, empty vessel, and mistreated other as a “you do me wrong I do you wrong” it was a give an take lifestyle.

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The purity and unity of the church

The purity and unity of the church

what makes a church more or less please to God ? What kinds of church should we cooperate with or join ?

1 Thessalonians
phil 1:3-11;4:10-16
2 Cor 8:1-5
(Gal. 1:6-9;3:1-5)
(1 Corinthians 3:1-4; 4:18-21; 5:1-2, 6:1-8; 11:17-22; 14:20-23; 2 Cor. 1:23-2:11; 11:3-5, 12-15; 12:20-13:10)

freedom from wrong doctrine and conduct, and its degree of conformity to God’s revealed will for the church.

it is right to pary and work for the greater purity of the church. purity cannot be our only concern, or Christians would have a tendency to separate into tiny group of very “pure”

strive for the unity of the visible church.

The unity of the church is its degree of freedom from divisions among true Christina.

there are those who are Christina in name only, but have had no genuine experience of regeneration by the Holy Spirit.

churches that are filled with such unbelievers still call themselves Christian Churches. We should not expect or work for organizational or functional utility that includes all of those people

encourage us to work for unity of all true believers.

factors that make church “more pure” include:

  • 1. biblical doctrine (or right preaching of the Word)
  • 2. Proper use of the sacraments (or ordinances)
  • 3. Right use of church discipline
  • 4. genuine worship
  • 5. effective prayer
  • 6. effective fellowship
  • 7. effective witness
  • 8. spiritual power in Ministry
  • 9. personal holiness of life among members
  • 10. care for the poor
  • 11. love for Christ

witnesses to other or in meaningful worship. church may have dynamic witness and very God-honoring times of worship but be weak in doctrinal understanding and bible teaching.

strong are the most important areas, and the areas where they are weak are less important.

Systematic Theology

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What is adultery?

WHAT IS ADULTERY?

Several years ago it would hardly have been necessary to discuss the meaning of “adultery.” Virtually every educated person knew that adultery is a sexual relationship that somehow or another breaches a marriage relationship.

In recent years though, a new view of adultery has been espoused by a minority element within the church. It is the notion that adultery is merely the act of repudiating one’s marriage vows (whether or not the covenant-breaker ever enters a new marital union).

The motive behind this novel theory is perfectly transparent. It is a result-oriented dogma. It suggests that if one commits adultery, i.e., he repudiates his marriage vow (admittedly an evil thing), then he may simply “repent” of that action, i.e., pledge not to do it henceforth, and, if he desires at some subsequent point, he may secure a new mate. According to this view, one can abandon his spouse for any trivial reason, pledge to never do such again, and then enter a new marriage.

Such an ideology makes an absolute mockery of the New Testament teaching on divorce and remarriage. But some are vigorously promoting this new view of adultery. (See note #1 below.) It is thus imperative that attention be focused upon the true meaning of that term as revealed in the Bible.

One of the fundamental rules of New Testament interpretation is known as usus loquendi. This is a Latin phrase which suggests that the common meaning (or the prevalent usage) of a term is to be assumed, unless some special significance is demanded by the context. The question is, therefore: how did the ancient writers—both profane and sacred—employ the term “adultery”?

The Classical Writers

The Greek word for adultery is moicheia. The classical Greek writers assigned a very clear meaning to the term. It had to do with the illicit sexual conduct of a married person, or with a married person.

For instance, Lysias (ca. 401 B.C.) writes concerning Euphiletus, an Athenian, who killed Eratosthenes after catching him committing adultery with his wife. In his defense he contends that the Court of the Areopagus has “expressly stated that whoever takes vengeance on an adulterer moichon, caught in the act with his spouse, shall not be convicted of murder” (1.30).

Xenophon (ca. 401 B.C.) describes the adulterer who “enters the woman’s quarters, knowing that by committing adultery moicheuonti he is in danger of incurring the penalties threatened by the law.” He suggested that this is foolish since “there are many remedies to relieve him of his carnal desire without risk” (Memorabilia II.1, 5).

In the second century A.D., Sextus Empiricus wrote: “Adulterers moichous are, of course, punished by law with us, but amongst some peoples, intercourse with other men’s wives is indifferent” (PyrrhonismIII.209).

There is no question about what the Greeks meant by “adultery.”

The Greek Old Testament

In the third century B.C., the Hebrew Old Testament was translated into the Greek language. That version is known as the Septuagint. How is the term moicheia employed in the Greek Old Testament?

Moses wrote that the man who “commits adultery moicheusetaiwith another’s wife” is subject to death (Leviticus 20:10). Note that adultery was not merely walking out on one’s spouse; it involved an act with another’s wife.

Concerning ancient Jerusalem, God said:

“I have seen thine abominations, even thine adulteries moicheia, and thy neighings, the lewdness of thy fornication, on the hills in the fields” (Jeremiah 13:27).

Though “adulteries” is here used figuratively of Judah’s apostasy, there are clear sexual overtones associated with the word. The fact is, sexual activity was a common feature of Canaanite idolatry.

In Ezekiel 16, Jehovah describes Jerusalem as “a wife that committeth adultery! moichomene that taketh strangers instead of her husband!” (v. 32). She had “opened [her] feet to every one that passed by, and multiplied [her] fornication” (v. 25). The graphic nature of this language simply cannot be misconstrued.

Again, to worldly, idol-worshiping Israel, the prophet Hosea said: “[L]et her put away her fornications from her face, and her adulteries moicheian from between her breasts” (2:2). The allusion to an immoral embrace is obvious.

Clearly, in the Old Testament, adultery had to do with a sexual violation of marriage.

General New Testament Evidence

How does the New Testament use the term “adultery”? Is there any indication that the word means merely the abandonment of a marriage? We confidently affirm that there is not a scrap of evidence supporting this idea. Let us consider several New Testament passages in which the word “adultery” occurs.

First, Jesus spoke of those who “look upon a woman to lust after her.” He says that such one has “committed adultery” with her in his heart (Matthew 5:28). The term “lust” demonstrates that a sexual inclination is involved.

Do men lustfully fantasize about breaking covenants? That is not a viable viewpoint. Moreover, those who have “eyes full of adultery” (2 Peter 2:14) are surely not ogling a marriage document with a view to tearing it up!

Second, on a certain occasion the Pharisees brought a woman to Christ who had been caught “in adultery” (John 8:4). In the Greek text, the term is moicheuomene, a present tense participle. She was in the process of committing adultery when apprehended; the writer even emphasizes that she was “in the very act.”

What was the act? Was she merely shredding a marriage license? Was she slamming the door as she abandoned her home? Can one really miss the meaning of “adultery” in this context?

Third, the writer of the book of Hebrews admonishes Christians to “let the bed be undefiled: for fornicators and adulterers God will judge” (13:4). Exactly how does an adulterer “defile the bed”?

Let the Bible answer this question. According to the Old Testament text, Reuben, the son of Jacob, “went up to [his] father’s bed; then defiled it” (Genesis 49:4). What was his sin? He “lay with Bilhah his father’s concubine” (35:22). There is no question but that “adultery” has a sexual import in Hebrews 13:4. See also the connection between “bed” and “adultery” in Revelation 2:22.

Divorce and Remarriage Contexts

Let us now view the use of “adultery” as such appears in two New Testament contexts which specifically deal with the divorce and remarriage issue. Let us see whether or not the covenant-breaking definition will fit reasonably into these passages. After all, it is well known that if one correctly defines a term, the definition may be substituted for the word itself, and the sense of the passage will not be compromised.

First, Jesus declared that the man “who divorces his wife, saving for the cause of fornication, makes her an adulteress” (Matthew 5:32). Contemplated here is an innocent woman who has been victimized by her husband. She has been put away. She did not break the marriage covenant. Her husband did. And yet she, should she remarry, is stigmatized as an adulteress. (See note #2 below.)

This statement makes no sense at all if “adultery” is defined as covenant-breaking. But it makes perfect sense if the woman involves herself in a new sexual union without the benefit of a divinely authorized divorce.

Second, in Matthew 19:9, Jesus taught that anyone who divorces his companion, without her having been unfaithful, is committing adultery. The force of the form “committeth adultery” (a Greek present tense) is this: the offender keeps on committing adultery.

As Reisser (1976, 583) notes, he “enters the realm of adultery.” Professor William Beck (1963, 37) renders the verb in this fashion: “he is living in adultery.” Each act of sexual union with an unauthorized partner is adulterous.

However, this grammatical nuance does not fit the covenant-breaking definition of “adultery,” as set forth by some of our brethren. The advocates of this view contend that the adultery was a one-time event; it occurred when the divorce was initiated, and it was concluded at that point. That position is not consistent with the thrust of the present tense in this passage.

The Language Authorities

In conclusion, we should observe that some of the proponents of this new and novel theory have acknowledged that they are without scholastic support for their argument.

In his debate with this writer, Truman Scott (21) confessed that there has not been produced a single “Bible dictionary, commentary, Greek lexicon, Greek word study, [or] specific treatises on divorce and remarriage . . . within the last 350 to 400 years” that agrees with his position, namely that adultery is simply covenant-breaking. The brother would be a “law unto himself” when it comes to defining words.

Seldom have language authorities so unanimously agreed upon the meaning of a word as they have in the case of “adultery.” In the Old Testament the term na'aph (adultery) “represents ‘sexual intercourse with the wife or betrothed of another man’”(Harris, Archer, and Waltke 1980, 542).

The corresponding Greek word describes “one who has unlawful intercourse with the spouse of another” (Vine 1991, 17). Such testimony could be multiplied many times over. But why bother when the leading defender of this position concedes there is no scholastic support for his position?

A number of respected brethren have shown the utter folly of the theory under review. J. D. Thomas, writing in The Firm Foundation (June 7, 1983), charged that the “covenant breaking” ideology has “no support whatever from scholarship,” and “is an invented idea pure and simple.” He correctly diagnoses the situation: this theory is a capitulation to the immoral pressures of our culture (Jackson and Scott, Appendix IV).

Hugo McCord has carefully reviewed this “bizarre definition of adultery” and denounced it (n.d., 160-64). Jack Lewis has also written an excellent article on this theme (1992, 19-20).

Conclusion

We do not help our worldly contemporaries by contriving theories which leave them in their sins. Yet that is precisely what some of our brethren have done. May God grant us the courage to speak the truth in love; but yes, it must be the truth.

Notes:

1 This view has been advocated in recent years by several brethren. Olan Hicks defended this concept in The Connally-Hicks Debate (1979). John Edwards argued the position in An In Depth Study of Marriage and Divorce(1985). Perhaps the most widely-known proponent of the adultery-covenant-breaking theory is Truman Scott, affiliated with the Sunset School of Preaching in Lubbock, Texas. For his views, see Divorce & Remarriage – A Study Discussion by Wayne Jackson and Truman Scott (1983). (See also Jackson 2002.)

2 The unscrupulous husband “causes her to commit adultery (by contracting a subsequent marriage)” (Arndt and Gingrich 1967, 528). Lewis notes: “It is assumed she will marry again” (1976, 93). Some argue that the passive form, “makes her an adulteress,” means that she is subjected to the reputation of being an adulteress, the presumption being that her husband would not have divorced her unless she had been unfaithful. In any event, the word “adulteress” can only be viewed in terms of sexual activity.

REFERENCES
  • Arndt, William and F. W. Gingrich. 1967. A Greek-English Lexicon of the New Testament and Other Early Christian Literature. Chicago, IL: University of Chicago.
  • Beck, William F. 1963. The New Testament in the Language of Today. St. Louis. MO: Concordia.
  • Edwards, John. 1985. An In Depth Study of Divorce and Remarriage. St. Louis, MO: Edwards.
  • Harris, R. L., Gleason Archer, Jr., and Bruce Waltke. 1980. Theological Wordbook of the Old Testament. Vol. 2. Chicago, IL: Moody.
  • Hicks, Olan. 1979. The Connally-Hicks Debate. Ramer, TN: National Christian Press.
  • Jackson, Wayne and Truman Scott. 1983. Divorce & Remarriage – A Study Discussion. Stockton, CA: Christian Courier Publications.
  • Jackson, Wayne. 2002. The Teachings of Jesus Christ on Divorce and Remarriage. Stockton, CA: Christian Courier Publications.
  • Lewis, Jack. 1976. Matthew. Austin, TX: Sweet Co.
  • Lewis, Jack. 1992. What Is Adultery? The Gospel Advocate, January.
  • McCord, Hugo. n.d. Fifty Years Of Lectures: Volume Two. Atwood, TN: Church of Christ.
  • Reisser, H. 1976. Theological Dictionary of the New Testament. Vol. 2. Colin Brown, ed. Grand Rapids, MI: Zondervan.
  • Vine, W. E. 1991. Vine’s Amplified Expository Dictionary of New Testament Words. Iowa Falls, IA: World.
SCRIPTURE REFERENCES
Leviticus 20:10; Jeremiah 13:27; Ezekiel 16; Matthew 5:28; 2 Peter 2:14; John 8:4; Genesis 49:4; Hebrews 13:4; Revelation 2:22; Matthew 5:32; Matthew 19:9
CITE THIS ARTICLE
Jackson, Wayne. “What Is Adultery?” ChristianCourier.com. Access date: December 9, 2017. https://www.christiancourier.com/articles/343-what-is-adulter