Define of purity- 

Exbaut fumes are a tbreat to the purity of rhe air we breathe: pureness, clearness, clarity, lucidity, limpidty; cleanliness, cleanness, immaculateness, immaculacy, brilliance; excellence, fineness; homogeneity, uniformity. She is a woman of purity and goodness: guiltlessness, guilelessness, innocence, clear conscience; modesty, temperance, chastiry, virginity, chasteness, decency, uprightness, morality, rectitude; holiness, saintliness, honestly, honor, simplicity, plainness, directness. 

  • Meaning of being free – not hled as a slave of sin.
  • Meaning of sexually – of, relating to, or involing.
  • Desire – to feel desire for something 

God promise those are pure in heart 

  1. Psalms 24:3-3 
  2. Matthew 5:8 

Pure heart

Who shall ascend into the hill of the Lord? or who shall stand in his holy place? He that hath clean hands, and a pure heart; 

Who hath not lifted up his soul unto vanity, nor sworn deceitfully. He shall receive the blessing from the Lord, and righteousness from the God of his salvation. (Psalms 24:3-5) 

In the three verse, its asking us a question “who shall ascened”. God is saying, are you worthy enough enough to ne or to stand in my holy place? Down to verse four, we’re it is talking about having a  clean hands  and pure heart. Why is this so important to to God?  Because, being unpure in God holy kingdom doesn’t have any viable; sin cannot mixed together with a godly person, oil cannot be mix with water and being unequal yoke in marriage is not edible. 

 Let look at two kind of yoke and unequally yoked:

The Yoke

What is a yoke? A yoke is an implement that is used to harness animals together to pull a load or a plow. The yoke is a familiar and useful tool to agrarian (farming) societies. This device is used to join a pair of animals, like oxen, to work together, simultaneously. They can be used to pull out tree trunks, move boulders, pull logs, to plow fields, or pull a loaded cart. The yoke is often used in the Bible to express the symbolism of having two that are similar in capacity so that they can both work together. Jesus referred to a yoke once when He told His followers to, Come to me, all you who are weary and burdened, and I will give you rest. Take my yoke upon you and learn from me, for I am gentle and humble in heart, and you will find rest for your souls. For my yoke is easy and my burden is light (Matthew 11:28-30). When we are walking with Christ and are in Christ, we can share the load of our life with Him and the walk, although not easy, will be more bearable.

Dating an Unbeliever is Disobedience

2 Corinthians 6:14 is the oft-cited verse calling believers to be “equally yoked”. But many believers fail to see why this command from the Apostle Paul is so important. Others disregard it completely.

Being equally yoked is not meant to inhibit our dating lives. Rather, it is a command designed for protection and honor. Being unequally yoked is more dangerous than you think – and waiting for someone with whom you share the same spiritual heritage is far more rewarding than many believe.

Bible Verses to read for yourself:

  • Deuteronomy 7
  • Judges 3:5-6
  • Judges 14
  • 1 Kings 11

Intimacy is Impossible Without Spiritual Unity

If Christ is truly King of our lives, our most intimate selves should be submitted to His influence. How then can we unite a Spirit-led soul to one in rebellion against God?This rubs people the wrong way, because no matter how respectful, sweet, or “loving” an unbelieving partner is, he is at odds with Christ – he is in rebellion. But if we call ourselves Christians, we’re saying we believe the Bible is our final authority. The Bible says that all have sinned and fallen short of the glory of God, and that without Christ we are “[unresponsive] in our transgressions”, conformed to the world, “living by the cravings of our flesh” and “by nature, children of wrath”. (Eph. 2:1-3) This is who we are without Jesus. This is who everyone is apart from Christ.

Therefore, those of us in Christ cannot be in a harmonious, God-pleasing relationship with an unbeliever. There is no fellowship between light and darkness (2 Cor. 7:14)! The Greek word for “fellowship” in this passage literally means contact orintimacy. Through Paul’s inspired words, we learn that intimacy with unbelievers is not just discouraged – it’s impossible.

God knows this. It’s why he commanded the Israelites to marry within the household of faith, and it’s why He inspired Paul to issue the same command. This is for our spiritual protection! Righteousness has nothing in common with a person who believes they are good enough apart from God:

“For what do righteousness and wickedness have in common? Or what fellowship can light have with darkness? What harmony is there between Christ and Belial? Or what does a believer have in common with an unbeliever?” (2 Cor. 6:14-15)

No relationship apart from Christ can be truly “good” (Mark 10:18). No “love” apart from Christ is truly love (1 John 4:16-17). It may look like these things from the outside, but will never be unified within.

Your Body is a Sanctuary of Worship

Paul’s mandate to be “equally yoked” isn’t found in a list of commandments; it was written to the struggling church at Corinth, a group of people confused about how to live for Christ in a corrupt world. That’s why he took the time to explain why equal yoking is essential to the Christian walk:

“What agreement can exist between the temple of God and idols? For we are the temple of the living God. As God has said:

I will live with them
and walk among them,
and I will be their God,
and they will be My people.”
Therefore come out from among them
and be separate, says the Lord.
Touch no unclean thing,
and I will receive you.” (2 Cor. 6:16-17)

Your body is the new Temple. As a follower of Christ, the Spirit of God dwells in you. This is why God calls us to “come out from among them, and separate.” He’s not telling us to be unloving – we are called to love unbelievers (1 Pet. 2:12). God is calling us to love Him more than we love our own desire for a relationship. He’s calling us to be a place of worship.

This is a call to reconsider your view of God and dating. God cares about our relationships because He care about us. He cares about our purity because that is what keeps us in relationship with Him! Our holiness preaches the gospel louder than our words. Unequal yoking hinders our walk with God – the one thing we need more than anything else. 

Back to: Pure heart 

Seek means more than looking for something that is lost or hidden. It mean turning to someone for advice  (Amos 5:6) seek the Lord and live, he break out like fire in the house of Joseph, and it devour, with none to quench it for Bethel. 

When you live out God commandments with action, not just with words; God will blesses you with righteousness and to be able to help people someone else as well.

Blessed are the pure in heart: for they shall see God – Matthew 5:6

Warning Against Adultery- flee sexually behaviors  

or do you not know that the unrighteousness will not inherent the kingdom of God? Do not be deceived: neither the sexually immoral, nor idolaters, nor adulterers, nor men who practice homosexuality, nor thieves, nor swndlers will inherit the kingdom of God. 1 Corinthians 6:9-11

God heal brokenhearted 

He healeth the broken in heart, and bindeth up their wounds Psalms 147:3

 I remember for I came a discip to follow after Jesus Christ, my life was ratchet. Didn’t care about other, street running, hang out with drug dealers. I was physically, emotionally, and mentally abused from my mother, ended up having a child outside of marriage, fulfilling a empty void by going in and with different relationship with men’s, so much more. 

2009. God take me so low, by me feeling his pain on how sin fet like to him; it was not a good feel but in that moment really feel like God was saying to me. You either chase after me or continue to suffer in your opinion?  For like three or four months I suffer, by feeling so  a shame in my heart by not telling no problem or issues. 2/5/2010 I was in church, but for I had came out the build I had made up my mind to no longer live in sin; instead, I give up my life with surrender and confessing, fill with the Holy Ghost. This is my testimony! ​

If you are already in a unequal yoke relationship with unbeliever, or young woman thats trying to live for Christ, but still having issues with sexually behaviors Start by reading 1 Corinthians 7, Deuteronomy 7, book of Romans. If you, have any questions. Email: 

Looking forward hereing from you! 



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I’m very excited you made it.

Can we talk!? I’m sure we can, no one will not have a problem on my point view.

Okay, let’s get started!

First, let me share my testimony with you.

My name is Sarah Coulter. I’m single mother with a 13th year old, before I surrender my life to God in 2010; I was spending most of my time Chasing down man’s at a very young age. Why? I didn’t understand my purpose, abuse as a very young age, and force to do things that should had only had happened in marriage. So, everything I want through before I said YES to God in 2010; I allowed myself to have a harderd heart towards myself by not care about my body or how I was treating others.

 I was constantly running in and out of different relationship, by trying to fulfilled empty void that was only temporary. When one relationship ended I would head to the next guy or even be in two relationship at the same time; through out all the relationship I run through only one was ready for marriage, but I didn’t except the engagement because I know, I wasn’t ready, didn’t know who I was, my purpose, still had desire to live a street life, drugs, and culbing; doing whatever I can to keep my flesh busy. Long story short! I’m so grateful that I made up my mind to chase after Jesus Christ now, because now I have love, understanding of my purpose, joy please, happiness. Jesus is the one I run to when I’m hurting, Jesus is the one I run to when things look confused, Jesus is the one I run to, when I need to whole a deep conversation with. God is my everything!

My words, my life, and purpose is not to  Boston or to have anyone all up in there’s  feels… Its all about God and to show you, what God can do in your life an to help others as well. List up ladies, stop chasing these man.. yes! You. If you’re reading this, and you know you’re follower of Christ; don’t waste time because a guy will know this wife because you would be apart of him. Just like Adam! He know who was eve was… EVE DIDN’T HAD TO CHAES DOWN Adam, not even one bit..


Jonh 15:1-6

Proverbs 18:21

Jonh 8:12

Roman 8:28

Matthew 5:8

Job 31:1

Psalms 51:10

Proverbs 4:23

Luke 11:34

Galatians 5:17

Worldly Idea 

We are more now in a generation were you may here from people, on what they want out of a man; few keys that I had heard  from some female.

1. He have to look good 

2. He Need a 6 pick with big muscle

3. He have to have money 

4. He need his own car 

5.  He need his own house

6. He need good looking clothes 

I believe there’s more women not all, but more concern what a man have for them and how they should look or dress an a certain way. Instead of, trying to figure out what you wanted, think about what you’re doing. Because, when you’re mind more focused on earthly things just going to fade away quickly. You have to think biblical and wisely, on what God want for you. Because that 1-6 not going to help or build your relationship with God.

-Sarah Coulter 


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